'Going Away' Party

Well……what a great party.  Thanks so much to Grant and Kim for their generous hospitality and Ryan for organizing a stellar Going Away party.  Grant and Kim’s place on the beach was done up like a wedding, with tons of balloons with African prints.  Ryan’s tenant supplied the DJ equipment, and Angie’s farm provided the Alberta Beef burgers!!  Thanks to Tracey and Susan, Dana, Paul and Piper for coming in costume.  Of course, what party would be complete without the Tickle Trunk making an appearance and everyone dove in to dress up in many different costumes and wigs.  I think it was when Ryan starting his own karaoke on the mic, when the party really kicked in.  While we were all dancing outside to Ryan’s crooning, there was obviously a different beat being played inside.  AC/DC was cranked and wigs were flying with all the head banging.  One of the most interesting moves, was Paul down on all fours, with Tracey standing on his back like she was surfing.  And of course, Amy was cutting a rug while ‘playing her toy’!  I think Paul tried on every outfit in the tickle trunk, but my favourite was the leopard skin dress and fish net stockings!

Thanks to all who enjoyed our bash until the wee hours.  Kim and Grant, you are fantastic hosts and we know you had a blast too!!  We couldn’t have asked for a better send-off!
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Christmas 2008

Two weeks later, Christmas was suddenly upon on us, but it was relatively quiet for us, with get-togethers or dinner at friends’ homes most evenings. We had our now traditional Christmas tree decorating party bringing Christmas cheer to our little place with good friends. And the tree was PERFECT covered in its mish-mash of ornaments and fond memories! Christmas day itself was very relaxed: after an eggs-benny breakfast we sat in the snow on the beach enjoying the White Christmas, drinking hot chocolate and baileys – looks like it’s becoming a Christmas day tradition for us! Later we had delicious mouth-watering turkey with friends Aaron and Katherine and their family, followed by games… and more eating!

Boxing Day we braved the Sales. In North America Boxing day sales start at 6 or 7 in the morning. Two and a bit hours of freezing cold at 4.30am in the queue was not much fun let me tell you! It had it’s merits - the people around us were nice enough and knowledgeable about electronics, helping us seal the deal in justifying our intended purchase of a new telly! Our current 13 year old telly was going to replace a broken tv for our Big White renters. We had done our research from all the Boxing day flyers out on Xmas eve and knew which bargain we wanted. Once the doors opened only 20 people were allowed in at a time and as we were 19th and 20th in the queue, we were in the first group; we obtained a sales slip for the TV at the door, then headed over to the till. That easy! Even though the whole experience was extremely dignified and this was a big purchase for us, I think this will be my first and last Boxing Day sale. Getting up at some ungodly hour and standing in the freezing (-15C) cold has to be really worth it! Thankfully, Martin and I love turkey and later that day we drove to Summerland (about 45 minutes away) for more Christmas turkey with his Nanny, and Auntie and Uncle. (His parents winter in Arizona). So it was a relaxed and pleasant afternoon, but we were definitely wiped out from our early morning start!

Recent storms have been dumping lots of light fluffy fluffy fluffy snow so we have been enjoying the snow up at Big White - the ski hill. Unfortunately, I was back at work this week while Martin, whose work was closed, skied for a number of days.

New year’s eve was great; a party and sleepover at Nicole’s and Don’s. Quite a few families with lots of kids running around. We had fun playing twister in the garage (Nicole and Don had epoxyed coloured circles onto the garage floor!), but as we’re all getting old , it was pretty tiring. This was followed by endless games of Hula Hoop and tight-rope walking on the Wii. I crashed at about 2am! Martin at 4.30am. * Mush
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Cuba, Nov 2008

Photos to follow.
For a Christmas present to each other, we went to Cuba at the end of November- a place I’d been wanting to go to for a while. We spent two and a half weeks moving around every 2-3 days. We have been to many countries around the world and discovered that Cuba is not our favourite country - probably because we have a lot to compare it to! We loved the old colonial architecture. Pity it was crumbling and very run down in many places that we went to. Imagining all the buildings restored to their former glory, it would’ve been an amazing place to see. Some towns were very quiet and there wasn’t a lot to do in the evenings, but when we encountered latin music playing in the which we discovered in the evenings just walking around town. We enjoyed going back in time seeing all the rundown 1950s cars - very cool! And the people in the Casas Particulares (like B&Bs) were super super nice to us and we had a great time interacting with them. We also had fun in a place called Vinales – in the countryside with lots of limestone pinnacles. One day we met a farmer, Miguel, who was SO nice. He had a moustache – mo – just like Martin’s, so here they are, the Mo Bros! We don’t speak much Spanish although we tried and managed to muddle through most times. Using very basic Spanish so we could understand, Miguel invited us to his home (shack) for coffee and a handmade cigar which he rolled for us right there and then! We met all his family over the next coming days, and they were super-grateful for the toothpaste, soap and clothes we gave them. On the whole, the people in Cuba in the streets and shops are not as friendly as other people we have encountered in other similarly oppressed countries that we've been to. Of course, they do want your money … so there was a lot of hustling.. "You want taxi?.. You want restaurant? You want cigar?" Like I said, not our favourite country, but we’re glad that we went, and now we can cross it off our list.

September Parties, 2008

At the end of September Martin had his 15 year University reunion so off he went to Queens, Ontario. Meanwhile I went to a breast cancer fundraiser with some girl friends which was a lot of fun, dressing all the same in pink. *Mush

Photos to follow.

Summer 2008

Normally our landlords give us very little notice when they go out of town back to Vancouver, but this summer they were away for 2 months in Europe. This was excellent news as not only would we be able to enjoy the beach whenever we wanted, more importantly, we would be able to plan ahead for BBQs, parties etc with plenty of notice. So throughout the summer we had a number of parties coinciding (or not) with visits from various friends: Paul (whom we met in China), Lisa (from Martin’s high school), and old Kelowna friends, Gerri and Eric. Our summer was excellent because of this bonus and we could invite and just hang out with good friends with the best view in town! * Mush Photos to follow.

July 2008

Photos to follow.
Our summer was not as hot as it normally is here in the Okanagan, but on a rafting weekend in Lytton - about 5 hours northwest from here - we had temperatures of 41C! The trip was great with our friends Nicole and Don and their bunch of friends who we go camping with. We camped and then rafted down the Thompson river in 2 rafts (amongst many others). It was great – we would have water fights with each raft and then try and pull each other off the rafts into the water. It felt really good because it was so stinky hot! * Mush

My new job, May 2008

Towards the end of my contract coordinating the Gala of Hope for the Canadian Cancer Society, I got offered a job at the BC Cancer Foundation. The BCCF is the fundraising arm of the local cancer centre - the BC Cancer Agency, Centre for the Southern Interior - where patients receive cancer treatment and care. To add to the chaos at this time, my permanent residency came through at the end of April. Finally! It was such a relief! Anyway, I saw this as an opportunity, for once I started work, initially I would not accumulate enough holiday to go to England, so I thought I would grab the chance now. It was last minute, but it was great to see my family. My neice and nephew had just grown so much since I'd left a year and a half ago!

Then, two days after getting back to Canada I started my new job. I love it and my manager, Cynthia (far right) is a really nice lady, and the other members of the team pictured here, Rose and Karen, are great. The best thing was that because I'd been a volunteer at the centre right up until Christmas, everything was very familiar to me and I knew so many people. The first few weeks I would get hugs every day from various staff and volunteers congratulating me on the job! It was great! As much I find biology and science fascinating, I feel like I have found my new niche in life. I just enjoy my very people-interactive career now! A far cry from doing lonesome bench research! * Mush

Gala of Hope, March 2008

The Canadian Cancer Society's Gala of Hope was the event that I had been gearing up for for eight months now. Preparation for the black-tie fundraiser was full steam ahead with everything from the band to linen to the food to choose and order. The day itself was very stressful. I don't think I've been that stressed in a very long time. You see, even though I had a committee helping me with ideas and how to do/ask for stuff, it was really me doing everything. Apart from the decor, of course. Sheila and Joan, my decorating girls, did the most gorgeous job ever! They volunteered their time and services to transform the convention rooms at the The Grand Okanagan Hotel into an absolutely amazing ballroom for a champagne reception and 5 course meal banquet. It was stunning, sophisticated and tasteful.

As guests arrived decked out in ball gowns and tuxedos to the Champage reception (sponsored by Mercedes Benz), a jazz trio played in the background, and there was a definite buzz of excitement and anticipation in the air! Just before 7 the ballroom doors opened and there were murmurs and cries at the breathtaking design and style. The banquet dinner with wine pairings was delicious, although I didn't eat much as I was making sure things were running smoothly. The Band, called "The Famous Players Band", were AMAZING - nailed every cover song. So much so, that they sounded like the real thing! In between sets of music and dancing there were lots of fundraising games - diamond rings raffled, trips away to be won - all to raise money to support cancer patients and increase prevention awarenss. The volunteers that helped with the smooth running of the event were fantastic. It was a long evening and we didn't get cleaned up until 3 in the morning. Phew! The next day was a long one too - we had to break down the decor and furnishings and transport home to various locations around town. The whole event was a huge success and we raised $269,000 that night - almost $70,000 more than last year! As you can imagine I was very pleased and very relieved! * Mush

Xmas on our Beach 2007

So it's been a long time since we blogged anything, but this is us on Christmas day drinking hot chocolate and Baileys on our beach determined to chill out and look at the view. Well, 'chill' we did - it was pretty nippy out! Then it was back inside to make our contributions for friends Keith and Amy and Xmas dinner at their house. There were 16 of us in total so it was pretty fun. Great to celebrate with new friends.

After Xmas it was off for some skiing at Revelstoke Resort to stay with friends and to ski the highest vertical descent in North America. There was some good snow and big runs, but Martin was disappointed with missing some excellent snow conditions at Big White, our local mountain in Kelowna. Oh well, can't have it all* Mush

Halloween 2007

Halloween time again and Martin and I found ourselves scratching our heads as to what we were going to be. We were a little out of practice as the last few years we haven't indulged in Halloween frivolities - we were either en route back into Canada at Martin's sister's, or traveling around the world. But do you remember that wonderful wig that I got Martin just before we went traveling?? A very useful item, I know! Well, we were desperate to use that somehow and eventually came up with the get-up you see here. It took us a while to make the amp and microphone, but it was worth it as it was appreciated by many! Kind-of makes it tough to follow next year though! *Mush

Camping again at Sugar Lake

We always have really great times with our friends Nicole and Don and their two girls, so we squeezed a night of camping back at Sugar Lake in October '07. There was some snow on the far distant hills which is hard to see. Great spot for some camp fire times and hanging out. *Mush

Campfire Music at Konkle Lake, BC

It's been a while since we blogged anything, so I've gone back through some photos that we've had on our Flickr site for a while (double click on a photo to get to this), but thought I would match them with a few stories. This camping adventure was back in September 2007, at a really pretty lake about 3-4 hours away from Kelowna called Konkle lake. We were with a mixture of Martin's friends - some who he hadn't hung out with in years. Pictured here are the Doody brothers who Martin used to work with at Western Star in Kelowna. Well I had a ball because they play lots of different musical instruments and love to sing, and we all know how much I hate that! The Doodys taught me to play the spoons and you couldn't stop me playing! I had blisters before too long, but it was worth it! * Mush

Shock! I have to work now!

At the end of August '07 my Open Work Permit arrived quite unexpectedly, and so I found myself able to work. I had been volunteering, as you know, at numerous places around Kelowna and at one of these I got offered a position at the Canadian Cancer Society organising their large black-tie fundraising event scheduled for March 2008. Well, I accepted and soon began rubbing elbows with the more affluent and influential members of Kelowna society. If nothing else, it would serve me well in terms of developing connections in this relatively small town. It was a short-term contract until April/May 2008, and I enjoyed pretty much most of it. I worked hard at acquiring sponsorship which is crucial for anything like this to succeed. And certainly event planning for a charity is no mean feat, especially as it was totally my job and responsibility to make sure it went well! * Mush

CSI Kelowna!

No, not Crime Scene Investigator unfortunately, but Centre for the Southern Interior - a part of British Columbia's Cancer Agency. As I settle into a semblance of a life, most of you who know me know that I am not one to twiddle my thumbs... So here I am volunteering at CSI Kelowna with fellow volunteer, Ron . It's great because I get to meet fun people like Ron, and also feel like I'm doing something worthwhile too. Most of our chores consist of dishing out tea and coffee and big smiles to patients waiting for treatment. I have been doing enough shifts now (about 2-3 per week, each shift is 3-4 hours) that I recognise the patients and have fun - at least with some of them. As you can imagine it is a tough place to be for cancer patients, but on the whole, I think it succeeds in being a very welcoming and upbeat place considering the circumstances. Our job as volunteers is to make a difference and hopefully make the cancer clinic a nicer place to visit.

One of my other regular shifts at the Cancer Agency is working in ACU - the Ambulatory Care Unit - basically where patients come and visit their oncologists before, during and after their chemo treatment. I essentially act as a middleman between the patient and the doctor/nurse (whomever they are seeing). So I keep all the rooms tidy and ready for patients, I greet them, weigh them, show them to their consult room and then inform the doctor they have arrived. I enjoy it because it is challenging and keeps my organisational skills in shape - I have to juggle the logistics of 5 or 6 doctors all seeing their patients every 20 minutes. It's also quite different to what I used to do ... seeing cancer from a different perspective: I've gone from the intellectual challenge of trying to find a cure for cancer - to seeing patients get their treatment - the results of hard work (and blood, sweat and tears) of scientists, like myself! * Mush

It's Alive!!!

Well, one of my possessions left in the Kelowna area is of course, my Toyota Landcruiser. It was living up at Phil McNeil's for over 4 years, and it was tucked away in a back field with the weeds. I went out to see it, taking a battery in tow and some gas. After getting the bees nests out of it (many), and as many spider webs as I could, I threw the battery and gas in, and to my amazement, it started FIRST TIME!!! Sweet!!
So, it is now back on the road again. It needs plenty of TLC now as it is dirty and has a few more holes (rust) than it did 4 years ago. Still a tank though, and reliable.
After the truck, I managed to make it to another housewarming party. Keith and Amy from Site360 had the group from work over to show off their new place. Great times, good food and a special appearance from Tracey's 6 week old Great Dane (very cute) made for a great night and a late night - arrived home at 3AM!! *Stub

Back on the Water

Well, after almost 3 years of being away from the water, I am afloat again! As most of you know I need to be near/on water - and I don't just mean the bath tub or a creek or something - I mean sailing on a boat on a large body of water, like the Columbia river or the ocean. Okanagan Lake is not, of course, the sea, but it is pretty big. When the wind picks up the waves feel and sound just like the ocean. I had been planning to park myself outside the yacht club and try and find a boat to crew on, but just by fluke I found out that a new friend's husband owns a Hobie 33 and he needed crew! So now every Wednesday night I race on the lake and have lots of fun. We generally come first - which turns out to be second after our handicap is taken into consideration. Oh well. Beer flows well, of course, and I am loving being out on the water again. The girls of my crew are a great bunch and we all get on well.

Our first weekend Regatta was in Summerland - about an hour south of Kelowna. By boat under motor-sail, however, it's 4-5 hours. We sailed in convoy with a few other boats to get there. We hit big waves and hailstorms, followed by hot temperatures and gorgeous sunny skies - perfect for cooling off in the water, and of course, obligatory water fights with the other boats. On arrival at Summerland Yacht Club, there were free Pina Coladas, and the delivery crews had more than their fair share of yummy cocktails. Giants Head Regatta, as it is known, was to start the next day so we had to pace ourselves. Needless to say, some were more successful than others!

Onboard our boat 'Celerity' was (left to right) Greg, whom we borrowed from a local Summerland boat, Skipper and owner Peter, Narissa, Leah, and Kristen. The long distance race around Rattle Snake Island was relaxed and enjoyable. The shorter races on Sunday were a little more intense and eventful, including shackles snapping open and sails flapping, capped off with running aground! Despite this we carried on racing and were surprised when we placed third overall!!! So it turned out to be a successful regatta after all! * Mush

Our Place

So here we are finally in our new place. Been here almost 6 weeks now. Most of that time seemed to be preoccupied with unpacking, sorting and purging / getting rid of stuff - something I am not very good at. It is a brand new carriage house - an apartment above the garage, and separate from the main house you can see here in the background. It's a one bedroom and not that big, so hence why we needed to have a good sort out!

The two main windows that you see are our living room (right) and dining area (left). The window towards the back far right, is our bedroom. Our dining room also has french doors (which you can't see here) around the left hand side. They open out onto a great view of the lake over the neighbours low single-story house. In fact, you can see the lake and hills between the cedars and the main house here. As you will have seen already from previous blogs, we have been enjoying the beach when the landlord is away. As you can guess, we're really enjoying our place and the great view, but more than anything, just having a place of our own at loooong laaaaast! *Mush

Getting Back Into Okanagan Life

So, Michelle and I have settled back in to life in the Okanagan (at least I have, and it is all new to Michelle). Among other activities, I really enjoy being out on the water. Unfortunately, I don't have a boat anymore, so have to rely on the kindness of others to 'invite' us on their boats. I've managed a waterski, and a couple of wakeboarding trips so far, and look forward to a few more. I haven't been pulled behind the boat in a few years, so the next day, the muscles sure hurt!!

I've also managed to get out mountain biking, camping, playing beach volleyball, while Michelle got back into sailing and racing on a crew. I've even managed to get out on the sailboat for a night on the water. We've been to many BBQ's and managed to catch up with lots of my old friends, whilst making some new ones through sailing and work!!! *Stub

Cowboys and Indians at the Cottons

Paul and Dana Cotton moved into a big new place, which is a huge change from their 1 bedroom condo. The house has at least 5 bedrooms, so now a new office for Paul, and a massage therapy studio for Dana downstairs.
So, of course, there had to be a housewarming party. The theme was cowboys and Indians. Some great costumes with the whole Cotton family coming as Indian (one East Indian - Al). I managed to sort through the tickle trunk and come up with this one.
Next to me is Kevin Holmes who actually had a pickle plate as his belt buckle - creative. We even had a Brokeback Mountain cowboy, as Spenny graced us with his presence.
A good night for all, and especially Dana who managed to see the sun come up whilst finishing some drinks with the last 2 remaining guests!! *Stub

Camping Trip - Sugar Lake, BC

Another favourite Okanagan activity for us is camping. We joined Don, Nicole and the girls, along with 3 other families on a camping trip up to Sugar Lake - about 2 hours NE of Kelowna. We love camping, so it was nice to get all our gear out of boxes and put it to use again. The tent was as comfy as usual and sitting around the fire was fantastic. And of course, the food was amazing. Either cooked on the fire pit, or on the BBQ's, you just tend to eat all day long while camping.
Some managed to get out on little fishing trips, but unfortunately, Don had caught all the fish in the lake apparently - at least so he claims!
Don also had 2 Quads and was looking for a partner to accompany him on a ride. So, I thought I would help him out. We took off and gained a lot of altitude (4000 ft) on the little logging roads and trails. These things really fly too, as I had mine up to 90km/h on the trails and apparently was up on two wheels often while cornering!! Some great views along the way, but then the rains came. Heavy big drops that turned into hail. It was tough riding as it felt like little rocks being thrown at you at high speed. We suffered through the pain though and had a great ride. *Stub

24 Hour Relay with Site360, Kelowna

I'm sure you were all wondering when I would get a job again. Well, I finally started back to work at the end of May with a Civil Engineering/Landscape Architecture firm called Site360. So far, the work has been interesting and fun. The office has a great atmosphere, and the people there are friendly and fun. It is only a small company of 22 people, but growing due to the residential growth in the area. Like I said, a very good atmosphere at the office, and we manage to quit early on Fridays for beer in the lounge!!
After only 2 weeks at work, we joined the group to do the Easter Seals 24 Hour Relay. It was a great way to meet the new colleagues outside of work and overall was a good time. Our team won Best Spirit, 2nd most fundraising and Most Laps/Distance run over the 24 hours. We also managed to party it up at night, with some of us staying in tents on the side of the track. All good fun, but the next day was a bit of a write-off!! *Stub

Things Happened Fast - Job, Home, Furniture, Car, etc

So, when I finally managed to get a job, everything else happened really fast getting back into 'real' life.
We managed to get my Oregon car imported, passed inspection and insured on the Thurs (May 24th). Also that day, I rented a trailer and drove my Dad's truck down to Portland. Of course, many of you know of my border troubles, so I was quite nervous trying to get into the US finally. All went well (only 1 hour at the border this time), and I was on my way to Portland. I stayed at Tom and MJ's, where we enjoyed a nice dinner, and then started packing up the big things into the trailer. I finished off packing some more things the next morning, then made a trip into my old work (Freightliner) and was able to meet up with a lot of old friends, although briefly.
From here, it was on to the Tomlinsons, where I loaded up all the other boxes and things from in their crawl space to fill the trailer. Trish had prepared a great dinner and had some more friends over for me to catch up with. A great time.
The next morning (Sat), I was driving back to Kelowna. I didn't arrive back until midnight after more stress at the border! But all was good. We had all of our things back in Canada.
Sunday, we moved in to our new apartment (see photo for our beach). More on the place later, but it is a beautiful 1 bedroom carriage house on the waterfront. Of course, moving and unpacking took all day (and the next few), but we had our own place finally after 2 years.
And then Monday, I started work!!!! Like I said, a busy 5 days, but everything really came together fast!!! *Stub

Picnic on Kitsilano Beach with J-Lo and Emma, Vancouver

My good English friend Rob (J-Lo) and his girlfriend Emma came out to Vancouver on a fact finding mission/holiday. They are scheduled to move out in July for at least a year, so were looking at places to live, and meeting with the new managers. Of course, there was a little skiing at Whistler too!
Michelle and I managed a quick few days in Vancouver to show them around a little. We stayed down in Kitsilano with Lisa again. We enjoyed some beers on patios, kite flying on the beach and picnics down on the waterfront. Both Rob and Emma really enjoyed their time in Whistler and Vancouver, and are quite excited about the prospect of moving to Canadia. * Stub

Raakel's Pit on Final Ski Weekend at Big White

As usual, nothing but sunny skies and HOT weather for the final weekend at Big White. The skiing was spring skiing at it's best, with some slushy corn snow. It didn't stop the boys from getting a little crazy on the Cliff though.
We managed to stay up at the hill with Rob Nagy and Michelle. Partying the Friday down at Happy Valley, watching Paul Cotton win the film competition again for his new short called The B Squad.

Much of the weekend went like this - chilling out with friends in the Pit. The whole gang was there, so a good way to finish up my first season back at Big White - and Michelle's first. *Stub

Huge Back Flip by Spenny

Final weekend at Big White and I was sure glad I took my camera out for the day. I wasn't able to get crazy but the crew were 'going off' - hucking themselves off some big drops, and letting some huge tricks out. And there was carnage. This shot from below in the terrain park looked sweet, but the landing wasn't so great! Spencer McLennan, Mark Smeltzer and Jeremy Denman really performed for the camera and I nailed some sweet shots (check out more on Flickr). Getting ready for next years photo competition!!! *Stub

A Week In Vancouver

The day after we returned from Fernie, I took Martin's Grandad for cornea transplant surgery in Vancouver for 5 days. Martin's parents winter in Mexico, Martin's uncle had broken his ankle, and Martin was working for a friend in Vancouver. So it was just me left. Vancouver is about a 5 hour drive from Martin's grandparents one way and it was a long drive. Martin's grandparents are 90 years old. Grandad can't see well or hear, which is very frustrating for him. Nanny can't walk very far or for very long, and is losing her memory. Needless to say, it was a looooong week - for all of us, what with getting them around Vancouver's suburbs for different appointments each day. It didn't feel very much like my Birthday, but I did go out for ice cream to celebrate with my old Uni friend, Nadia, who I was staying with. The good thing is that Grandad's surgery went well and he is now able to see a bit better and is in a lot less pain.

I was not the only one to have a rough week - Martin was working 16 hour days doing labour work for a friend laying concrete and epoxy floorings. I don't know who had the worst week between us: him or me! * Mush

The Six-Pack Together Again, Fernie, BC

It was back in 1989 when Mark and Jeff Neilson, Sacha Singh, Rob Irwin, Mike Henderson and I went on our first big ski trip out West to Panorama. Well, this was the Six-Pack Reunion tour to Fernie. Now of course, there were a few extras (like a 12-Pack) and some minis.
It was great to get the group together again and have all the significant others (although we missed Cathy) with us, along with the kids Abby Irwin, Rhianna and newborn Callum Singh.
And what a week for skiing. Big dumps of snow and a magical powder day. Of course, there were no friends on a powder day and we all just charged, skiing with whoever could keep up. A small group of us had a dream run, as we arrived at the top of the lift just as the ski patrol was dropping the rope to an entire bowl full of unbelievable, untouched snow (25cm+). The elbows were flying as the rope dropped and it was a gong show of speed and lack of control!! * Stub

Surrounded by Visa Applications, Kelowna BC

January and February was also a busy time for getting Canadian visa applications done. First priority was the extension of my current status as a Visitor which was due to expire in March: meaning, if I didn't get this done, I would have to leave!

Well, if I thought gathering documents and filling the ambiguous forms for the extension application was challenging, it was nothing compared to the Common-law Permanent Resident application! To prove Common-law for a normal couple is relatively easy - you have a house together, you have bills, bank accounts, credit cards, blah, blah, blah. I said 'normal'! Well, as you know... we're not! How do you prove Common-law when you've been traveling in 15 different countries for the good part of the last two years?! No houses, no rent, no mortgage, no bills, no statements. Just tons of stamps in our passports and 20,000 pictures to show for it! With so many photos and emails to sift through it was a tough task. If it hadn't been for the generosity (... and printers/scanners/photocopiers!) of friends Nicole and Don, I don't know what we would have done! To boot, medicals, fingerprints, and police checks needed to be done. Not to mention the forms themselves which for me -- not being normal -- were a nightmare! Here's an example:

"Print the information requested for each address you have had in the last 10 years. You must put down every address no matter how short a period of time you stayed there. Forms will be returned if there is any period of time which you have not shown an address."

Can you imagine compiling a list of your own addresses for the last 10 years - no matter how short a period of time you stayed there? Then imagine not having a fixed address, on the move every 2-3 days and 'staying' in as many countries and places as we have!! Well, an impossible task - we have no idea of the address of most places we stayed in! So all in all, compiling the application was right up there next to writing research grant applications and my PhD thesis! In fact, by the time I was finished, the whole thing looked like a thesis! It was very very painful. Imagine my sigh of relief when we FINALLY got it sent off in the post! Phheeeewww! * Mush

Scoping Out a Line at Big White, BC

Well, this is what we had been planning for since we'd come back from our travels... and finally we were here! Big White. Martin's old ski hill. We rented a condo from one of Martin's friends, Paul Cotton, and skied as much as we could. Martin went out pretty much most days. I went out a little less sometimes working on paper work for Visa applications or job searching. Sometimes I would be put off if it was socked-in or cold. At the end of January the weather was bright and sunny, but got bitterly cold going down to -19 degrees C, and that was at the bottom of the hill!

All in all, we spent 6 weeks on the hill, every so often coming down into Kelowna for supplies and to see people. We also had friends from Portland come up and visit - it was great to have visitors, and to finally have a place that felt like our own for the very first time in just so long. It was also a very social time for us as many friends from Kelowna came up to visit and ski. We became good friends with the upstairs neighbours, Trina and Jeff, as they were up usually 3 nights per weekend. The skiing was great, and all in all, the 2 months were quite cheap! * Mush

Martin Reunites with Some Old Friends

An old work buddy from Kelowna and later, Portland, was visiting and it was a good excuse to gather together a few old faces to reminisce on old Western Star-times.